Confidence and Competence Grow Together — But Where You Start Matters
Jan 22, 2026
Why Skill-Building Alone Often Isn’t Enough for New Entrepreneurs
Many first-time entrepreneurs believe this:
“Once I learn enough, I’ll feel confident enough to start my business.”
So they invest in courses, certifications, and training. They work hard to build skills and business knowledge.
But when the learning phase ends, confidence doesn’t suddenly appear.
This is one of the most common early challenges for first-time entrepreneurs, and it’s not a personal weakness. It’s a misunderstanding of how confidence and competence actually develop.
They grow together.
But where you start makes a big difference.
How Entrepreneurs Think About Confidence
Most people wanting to own a business follow a two-step plan:
Step one: Learn, prepare, and build skills. Confidence stays low, but that feels acceptable “for now.”
Step two: Start the business. Confidence is expected to finally kick in once the skills are in place.
This approach feels responsible. School taught us to learn first and act later. Credentials feel like safety.
But this is the part nobody warns you about:
Confidence doesn’t magically arrive once you’ve done your preparations.
If not built during the learning phase, confidence usually stays at the same level, and stagnates — even after the business begins.
This is why so many capable people struggle with starting a business with confidence, even after years of preparation.
The Advice You Hear Everywhere (And Why It’s Only Part of the Story)
On the opposite corner, you often hear advice from mentors, authors, and educators sounding like:
“Just start before you’re ready.”
This advice isn’t exactly wrong. Action is important because hands-on learning can build real competence. Small wins can go a long way to building confidence.
But there’s an assumption hiding underneath that message: It assumes you already trust yourself enough to handle uncertainty and discomfort.
For many new entrepreneurs, that isn’t true yet.
When confidence isn’t yet built, starting a business can backfire and feel overwhelming instead of empowering. We are surprised when mistakes feel harder to move past. Feedback is more difficult to process. Forward movement takes more time and effort.
You don’t need to have a ton of confidence to begin, but there does need to be some confidence - enough for learning to stick.
How Confidence and Competence Actually Work Together

This isn’t about choosing confidence or competence - one or the other. Confidence and competence evolve best when they are built together because they reinforce each other.
Here’s a simple way to think about it:
Confidence keeps you engaged long enough for skill to develop — and skill strengthens confidence in return.
This loop continues over time.
But if confidence is too light at the start, the loop struggles to keep going. You might find yourself extra cautious. You may have skills, but they’re either being used not fully or not consistently. Learning feels stressful instead of productive.
The issue isn’t whether competence builds confidence.
It’s whether confidence is stable enough to support learning in the first place.
This is a core insight to think about.
Where Many Entrepreneurs Get Stuck
This is why some entrepreneurs:
- keep learning but delay action,
- know what to do but hesitate to do it,
- struggle with decision-making
- feel capable on paper but unsure in practice.
Skill-building can become a way to protecting one’s self, getting in the way of progress.
What’s missing isn’t intelligence or effort.
It’s internal stability.
The Missing Piece: Entrepreneurial Fitness

Before building the business, the entrepreneur must be able to function effectively under uncertainty.
This is where Ready Set Grow’s training program comes in.
Module 1: Entrepreneurial Fitness focuses on developing the internal foundation that allows business skills to be used effectively, including:
- self-trust,
- comfort with uncertainty,
- staying present during discomfort,
- recovering from mistakes without shutting down.
These aren’t the only benefits of the Ready Set Grow program. Entrepreneurial Fitness is a critical starting point that supports everything else that follows, including strategy, financial thinking, planning, and execution.
Entrepreneurial Fitness doesn’t replace business action but enhances it.
It improves how action is experienced, learned from, and sustained.
If you want more context on why action alone isn’t the full answer, this idea is explored further in our previous blog post, Why “Start Before You’re Ready” Is Only Half the Truth.
A Personal Observation
Earlier in my own career, I had the education and credentials. I looked prepared, on paper anyways.
What I didn’t have was steady self-trust.
I kept learning and running my business, assuming confidence would catch up. For a long time, it didn’t — until I strengthened my internal foundation. Once that happened, learning felt lighter, decisions became clearer, and I finally felt progress. It was major.
My journey has made me who I am today. But I can’t help but wish there had been holistic entrepreneur development available when I first started out because I could have bypassed common startup mistakes with confidence.
What Changes When You Start From a Stronger Place

When entrepreneurs begin with more internal stability:
- skills develop faster,
- feedback feels useful instead of threatening,
- momentum builds more naturally,
- clarity and focus improve.
Confidence doesn’t remove uncertainty.
It helps you move forward with it, and makes uncertainty more bearable.
Final Thought
Confidence and competence grow together.
But where you start matters.
Strengthening your internal foundation doesn’t delay success — it supports and likely accelerates it.
If you’re looking for structured entrepreneurial development, explore Module 1: Entrepreneurial Fitness program.
Don’t start from zero when instead you can start with stronger confidence.